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Genesis Chapter
Thirty-three
Genesis 33
Chapter Contents
The friendly meeting of Jacob and Esau. (1-16) Jacob
comes to Succoth and Shalem, He builds an altar. (17-20)
Commentary on Genesis 33:1-16
Jacob, having by prayer committed his case to God, went
on his way. Come what will, nothing can come amiss to him whose heart is fixed,
trusting in God. Jacob bowed to Esau. A humble, submissive behaviour goes far
towards turning away wrath. Esau embraced Jacob. God has the hearts of all men
in his hands, and can turn them when and how he pleases. It is not in vain to
trust in God, and to call upon him in the day of trouble. And when a man's ways
please the Lord he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him. Esau
receives Jacob as a brother, and much tenderness passes between them. Esau
asks, Who are those with thee? To this common question, Jacob spoke like
himself, like a man whose eyes are ever directed towards the Lord. Jacob urged
Esau, though his fear was over, and he took his present. It is well when men's
religion makes them generous, free-hearted, and open-handed. But Jacob declined
Esau's offer to accompany him. It is not desirable to be too intimate with
superior ungodly relations, who will expect us to join in their vanities, or at
least to wink at them, though they blame, and perhaps mock at, our religion.
Such will either be a snare to us, or offended with us. We shall venture the
loss of all things, rather than endanger our souls, if we know their value;
rather than renounce Christ, if we truly love him. And let Jacob's care and
tender attention to his family and flocks remind us of the good Shepherd of our
souls, who gathers the lambs with his arm, and carries them in his bosom, and
gently leads those that are with young, Isaiah 40:11. As parents, teachers or pastors,
we should all follow his example.
Commentary on Genesis 33:17-20
Jacob did not content himself with words of thanks for
God's favour to him, but gave real thanks. Also he kept up religion, and the
worship of God in his family. Where we have a tent, God must have an altar.
Jacob dedicated this altar to the honour of El-elohe-Israel, God, the God of
Israel; to the honour of God, the only living and true God; and to the honour
of the God of Israel, as a God in covenant with him. Israel's God is Israel's
glory. Blessed be his name, he is still the mighty God, the God of Israel. May
we praise his name, and rejoice in his love, through our pilgrimage here on
earth, and for ever in the heavenly Canaan.
── Matthew Henry《Concise Commentary on Genesis》
Genesis 33
Verse 3
[3] And
he passed over before them, and bowed himself to the ground seven times, until
he came near to his brother.
He bowed —
Though he feared Esau as an enemy, yet he did obeisance to him as an elder
brother.
Verse 4
[4] And Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck, and
kissed him: and they wept.
And Esau ran to meet him — Not in passion but in love.
Embraced him, fell on his neck and kissed him — God hath the hearts of all men in his hands, and can turn them when and
how he pleases. He can of a sudden convert enemies into friends, as he did two
Sauls, one by restraining grace, 1 Samuel 26:21,25, the other by renewing grace, Acts 9:21.
And they wept —
Jacob wept for joy to be thus kindly received; Esau perhaps wept for grief and
shame to think of the ill design he had conceived against his brother.
Verse 5
[5] And
he lifted up his eyes, and saw the women and the children; and said, Who are
those with thee? And he said, The children which God hath graciously given thy
servant.
Eleven or twelve little ones followed Jacob,
the eldest of them not fourteen years old: Who are these? saith Esau. Jacob had
sent him an account of the increase of his estate, but made no mention of his
children, perhaps because he would not expose them to his rage, if he should
meet him as an enemy. Esau therefore had reason to ask who are those with thee?
To which Jacob returns a serious answer; they are the children which God hath
graciously given thy servant. Jacob speaks of his children, 1. As God's gifts;
they are a heritage of the Lord. 2. As choice gifts; he hath graciously given
them. Though they were many, and but slenderly provided for, yet he accounts
them great blessings.
Verse 10
[10] And
Jacob said, Nay, I pray thee, if now I have found grace in thy sight, then
receive my present at my hand: for therefore I have seen thy face, as though I
had seen the face of God, and thou wast pleased with me.
I have seen thy face as though I had seen the
face of God — That is, I have seen thee reconciled to
me, and at peace with me, as I desire to see God reconciled.
Verse 12
[12] And he said, Let us take our journey, and let us go, and I will go before
thee.
Esau offers himself to be his guide and
companion, in token of sincere reconciliation. We never find that Jacob and
Esau were so loving with one another as they were now. God made Esau not only
not an enemy, but a friend. Esau is become fond of Jacob's company, courts him to
mount Seir: let us never despair of any, nor distrust God, in whose hands all
hearts are. Yet Jacob saw cause modestly to refute this offer, wherein he shews
a tender concern for his own family and flocks, like a good shepherd and a good
father. He must consider the children, and the flocks with young, and not lead
the one or drive the other too fast. Jacob intimates to him, that it was his
design to come to him to mount Seir; and we may presume he did so, after he had
settled his concerns elsewhere, though that visit be not recorded.
Verse 15
[15] And
Esau said, Let me now leave with thee some of the folk that are with me. And he
said, What needeth it? let me find grace in the sight of my lord.
Esau offers some of his men to be his guard
and convoy; but Jacob humbly refuseth his offer, only desiring he would not
take it amiss that he did not accept it. What needs it? He is under the Divine
protection. Those are sufficiently guarded that have God for their guard, and
are under a convoy of his hosts, as Jacob was. Jacob adds, only let me find
grace in the sight of my lord - Having thy favour I have all I need, all I
desire from thee.
Verse 16
[16] So
Esau returned that day on his way unto Seir.
And Jacob journeyed to Succoth — Having in a friendly manner parted with Esau, who was gone to his own
country, he comes to a place, where he rested, set up booths for his cattle,
and other conveniences for himself and family. The place was afterwards known
by the name of Succoth, a city in the tribe of Gad, on the other side Jordan;
it signifies booths: that when his posterity afterwards dwelt in houses of
stone, they might remember that the Syrian ready to perish was their father,
who was glad of booths, Deuteronomy 26:5.
Verse 18
[18] And
Jacob came to Shalem, a city of Shechem, which is in the land of Canaan, when
he came from Padanaram; and pitched his tent before the city.
And Jacob came to Shalem, a city of Shechem — Or rather he came safe, or in peace, to the city of Shechem. After a
perilous journey, in which he had met with many difficulties, he came safe at
last, into Canaan.
Verse 20
[20] And
he erected there an altar, and called it Elelohe-Israel.
He erected an altar — 1.
In thankfulness to God for the good hand of his providence over him. 2. That he
might keep up religion, and the worship of God in his family. He dedicated this
altar to the honour of El-elohe-israel, God-the God of Israel: to the honour of
God in general, the only living and true God, the Best of beings, the First of
causes: and to the honour of the God of Israel, as a God in covenant with him.
God had lately called him by the name of Israel; and now he calls God the God
of Israel; though he be called a prince with God, God shall still be a prince
with him, his Lord and his God.
── John Wesley《Explanatory Notes on
Genesis》
33 Chapter 33
Verses 1-16
And Esau ran to meet him, and embraced him
The reconciliation of Jacob and Esau
I.
IT
ILLUSTRATES THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE CHARACTERS OF THE TWO BROTHERS.
1. Esau was generous and forgiving.
2. In Jacob there are traces of his old subtlety.
II. IT ILLUSTRATES
THE POWER OF HUMAN FORGIVENESS.
III. IT ILLUSTRATES
THE TYRANNY OF OLD SINS. All was forgiven, but there was no longer any
confidence. So the effects of past sin remain.
IV. IT ILLUSTRATES
THE POWER OF GODLINESS. Jacob’s humility before his brother was but a sign of
his humility before God. His satisfaction to Esau is a sign also of his
reconciliation with God. (T. H. Leale.)
The brothers reconciled
I. A
RECONCILIATION AFTER A LONG SEPARATION,
II. A MOST
DESIRABLE RECONCILIATION.
1. Because of the happiness of their aged parents.
2. On account of their own families.
3. On account of their own spiritual well-being.
III. A
RECONCILIATION WHICH BROUGHT TO SIGHT THE BEST TRAITS OF THEIR CHARACTER.
1. Prayerfulness.
2. Humility.
3. Disinterestedness. (Homilist.)
Forgiveness of injuries
1. The most obvious motive to forgive is the pleasure of forgiving
and the pain of resenting. Therefore, as the apostle says, Repent, for the
kingdom of heaven is at hand, we may say, Forgive, for the kingdom of heaven is
at hand. Forgive while forgiveness is worth having; forgive while there remains
enough of life for the renewal of kindness; forgive while you have something
else to bestow on repentance than lingering looks and faltering words. And what
does this solemn Christian injunction of forgiving do but eradicate from the
mind the most painful and most unquiet of all passions? What wretchedness to
clamour out for ever, “I will pursue, I will overtake; my right hand shall dash
in pieces mine enemy”; to sacrifice all the quiet happiness of life, to sicken
on the bosom of joy, still, after the lapse of years, to feel, to see, and to
suffer with the freshness of yesterday; and in the midst of blessings to
exclaim, All this availeth me nothing while Mordecai, the Jew, sitteth at the
king’s gate.
2. Are we sure, too, that the cause of our resentment is just? Have
we collected the most ample evidence? Have we examined it with the closest
attention? Have we subjected it to impartial revision? Have we suspected our
passions? Have we questioned our self-love?
3. Men are so far, generally, from being ashamed of not forgiving
injuries, that they often glory in revenge; they believe it to be united with
courage and with watchful, dignified pride. Yet, after all, what talents or
what virtue can an unforgiving disposition possibly imply? Who is most likely
longest to retain the sense of injured dignity? He who has given no pledge to
his fellow-creatures that he is good and amiable? who does not feel that he is
invulnerable? who is least fortified by a long tenor of just intentions and
wise actions? What man who had ever trodden one step in the paths of religion
would vex the sunshine of his existence with all the inquietudes of resentment?
would ingraft upon his life the labour of hating, and hovel year after year
over expiring injuries? Who is there that bears about him a heart of flesh that
would put away a brother or a friend who knelt to him for mercy?
4. Other men, who have no desire to be thought magnanimous because
they revenge, are still apprehensive of being considered as timid if they
forgive and resent to maintain a character for spirit; but it is certainly
extremely possible to combine temperate resistance to present injustice with a
tendency to forgive what is past; to be firm in the maintenance of just rights
while we abstain from any greater injury to our enemies than is necessary to
maintain them, and hold ourselves ready for forgiveness when they are
maintained. (Sydney Smith, M. A.)
Needless fears
Now think, brethren, what a revulsion of feeling there would be in
Jacob’s heart. He would think, “Have I been all these years vexing myself for
this!” Here was the thing, so happy and pleasant and kindly when it came, that
had many a time broken his night’s rest at Haran just to think of it; that had
been a dull gnawing at his heart, making him uneasy and restless in cheerful
company; that had been the drop of gall in every cup he tasted--all these
years! And one thing we may be almost sure of: that in all his picturing out of
this dreaded meeting, thinking of it as coming in twenty sad ways, if there was
one thing he never pictured out, it would be just the meeting as it actually
came! The thing you expect is, in this world, the last thing that is likely to
befall you.
1. How needless are our fears! In how many cases we conjure up
things to vex and alarm us! For one-and-twenty years Jacob had kept himself
unhappy through the fear of a meeting which, when it came, proved one of the
happiest things that ever befell him in all his life. Now, have not you many a
time looked forward with great anxiety to something that was coming, and then,
when it came, found that all your anxiety had been perfectly needless? We all
have it in our power to make ourselves miserable if we look far into the years
before us and calculate their probabilities of evil, and steadily anticipate
the worst. It is not expedient to calculate too far ahead. Oh that we had all
more faith, Christian friends, in God’s sure promise made to every true
Christian, that as the day, so shall the strength be! We have all known the
anticipated ills of life--the danger that looked so big, the duty that looked
so arduous, the entanglement that we could not see our way through prove to
have been nothing more than spectres on the horizon; and when at length we
reached them, all their difficulty had vanished into air, leaving us to think
how foolish we had been for having so needlessly set up phantoms to disturb our
quiet. I remember well how a good and able man, who died not long ago, told me
many times of his fears as to what he would do in a certain contingency which
both he and I thought was quite sure to come sooner or later. I know that the
anticipation of it cost him some of the most anxious hours of a very anxious,
though useful, life. But his fears proved just as vain as Jacob’s in the
prospect of meeting Esau. He was taken from this world before what he dreaded
had cast its most distant shadow. God, in His own way, delivered that man from
the event he had feared. Some people are of an anxious, despondent temperament,
ready rather to anticipate evil than to look for good. But all of us, brethren,
need more faith in God. How comprehensive a prayer that is, asking so much for
time and for eternity, “Lord, increase our faith!” We bear a far heavier burden
than we need bear. If we had the faith which we ought to have, and which the
Holy Spirit is ready to work in us, we should cast all our care on God, who
careth for us.
2. In those seasons of anxiety and foreboding which, through our
weak faith and our remaining sinfulness, will come to us all, we should
remember what Jacob did, and where Jacob found relief. He turned to God in
prayer. He went and told God all his fear, and asked deliverance from God. And
not once, but many times; through a long night of terrible alarm and apprehension
he wrestled in urgent prayer. And see what he got by it. He got relief of
heart, certainly: of that we are sure. Perhaps he got more. We cannot say how
far those prayers went to turn Esau’s heart, and to make him meet Jacob in that
kindly spirit. When we are overwhelmed, fearful, perplexed, anxious, let us go
to God, and humbly and earnestly tell Him all we are thinking and fearing, and
ask Him to deliver us and comfort us. “Call upon Me in the day of trouble: I
will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify Me.” If ever there were words
confirmed by the experience of Christian people, you have them here. Perhaps
our prayer may cause the trouble we bear or we dread to go away. Perhaps the
stroke that seemed sure to fall may be withheld; perhaps the hope that seemed
sure to be blighted may be fulfilled after all: perhaps the blessing that
seemed sure to be taken away from us may be spared us yet. Perhaps, through our
prayer, it may be with us as it was with Jacob: when we come up to the time,
the trial, the duty, we feared, we may find that there is nothing about it to
be afraid of. But our prayer may be answered in a way that is better and
happier still. It may please God to allow all that we feared to befall us. It
may please Him to disappoint the hope, to frustrate the work, to continue the
long disease, to bring the beloved one down to the grave; but with all that to
resign our heart, to make us humble and content, to sanctify the trial to work
in us a patience, a faith, a humility, a charity, a sympathy, that are worth, a
thousand times over, all worldly happiness and success. Oh what an attainment
it is, which Christians sometimes reach, to feel, if only for a little while,
that our whole heart’s wish is that our blessed Saviour’s will be done and His
glory be advanced; and that, as for us, we are content to go where He leads us,
and to do and bear what He sends, sure that the way by which He leads us is the
right way, and that it will bring us to our home at last! And prayer will bring
us to this, if anything will. Do not, with the gnawing anxiety at your heart,
sit sullenly and try to bear your burden alone. Go with a lowly heart and roll
your burden on the strong arm of God Almighty! Oh how it will lighten your
heart to tell Him, simply, all your fears! You will come back, like Jacob, from
your Saviour’s footstool, calmed and cheered. And even if the stroke should
fall, even if we come out of our trial somewhat stricken and subdued, not quite
the people we were--as Jacob came lamed from that long night of prevailing
prayer--we shall be thankful and content if the stroke be sanctified to us: as
he (we may be sure) would never murmur as he halted on through life. One word
to prevent misapprehension. All this peace and hope is spoken only to Christian
people. “There is no peace, saith my God, to the wicked,” or to any who have no
part in Christ. We can speak no comfort to such in their fears. There is too
good reason for that dull foreboding of evil they bear through life. Their
fears are not needless. (A. K. H. Boyd, D. D.)
The brothers reconciled
I. THE APPROACH
OF THE BROTHERS.
1. Of Esau. At the head of four hundred armed men. Probably at the
first meditating revenge, or to make a great display of his power. But Jacob
was a man of prayer. Had often asked God to guard and keep him. Had the night
before this meeting so mightily prevailed in prayer that his name had been
altered. In answer to the prayers of Jacob, the revengeful feelings of Esau
depart. As he draws nigh, Esau feels his heart drawn out in love towards his
brother.
2. Of Jacob. Full of hope and confidence. Lame, and yet strong. He
is now the prevailer. The sun shining upon him, and, better still, God lifts
upon him the light of His countenance. He had sent forward the present, and now
places himself in advance of all the rest. He--the prevailer--does not fear to
meet the first storm of his brother’s rage.
II. RECONCILIATION
OF THE BROTHERS. Esau, the offended and injured, instead of taking vengeance on
Jacob, having his heart softened by the grace of God, runs towards Jacob. Does
not proudly wait for Jacob to approach, and then upbraid him for his past
conduct. Ran towards him. Then spoke not a single word. Could not. Too full of
joy at once more meeting his long-lost brother. They throw themselves in one
another’s arms. The kiss of reconciliation. Tears of joy, gratitude. Tears too,
it may be, of penitence on both sides. Each needed to be forgiven by the other.
Each had done wrong. Jacob, in that he had deprived his brother of the
birthright and the blessing; and Esau, in that he had left his father’s house,
and harboured wrong feelings against his brother, and been the cause of his
long exile. Persons offended with each other have often much need of each
other’s forgiveness. The pardon should be on both sides. He who forgives should
also seek forgiveness.
III. THE CONDUCT OF
THE BROTHERS.
1. Of Jacob. He entreats Esau to accept his present. Will take no
denial. Thus shows the sincerity of his affection. Is unwilling that Esau
should at all go out of his way to guard him. Has sufficient trust in God
alone.
2. Of Esau. At length, to please his brother, accepts the present he
makes. It is often as kind to accept as to make a present. He kindly received
the wives and children of Jacob. Goes on the way before Jacob to make the way
clear. Acts as his brother’s guide and vanguard. Shows his forgiveness by deeds
as well as by words. Without practical kindness words are “sounding brass,”
&c.
Learn:
1. In all angry partings, remember that a future meeting will come.
2. God can still the raging of the fiercest storm of passion and
revenge.
3. The reconciliation of brethren, a fit and beautiful sight.
4. We have all sinned against God, and need His forgiveness.
5. By causing Esau to forgive his brother, God shows how ready He is
to forgive us.
6. Our elder Brother, Jesus, has obtained a full pardon for us. (J.
C. Gray.)
The contrast
Reposing, therefore, with confidence on the promised protection of
his God, Jacob crossed the brook at sunrise, and, rejoining his family, went
calmly on his way. A short time appears to have brought on the crisis of his
trial: “Jacob lifted up his eyes, and looked, and behold, Esau came, and with
him four hundred men.” It is not difficult to conceive the rush of contending feelings
that would agitate his breast when the hostile party came in sight; nor to
imagine to what a height the tumult of his thoughts would increase as the two
bands approached each other. Grace does not make us stoics. It controls and
regulates the natural affections by subordinating them to higher principles;
but men of the warmest piety, while they are preserved from an exuberant and
inordinate indulgence of the affections, are generally possessed of the most
tender and benevolent spirit. Excessive natural affection is a common, and in
no respects a sublimated, feeling. But the leading point on which I wish at
this time to fix your attention is the manifest superiority of character
discoverable in Jacob when compared with his elder brother--a superiority
evidently not arising from superior intellect or other natural advantages, but
originating in his religious principles and habits. A fair and unprejudiced
examination of the case before us will show that the godly man, the faithful
servant of God through Jesus Christ, has a superiority of character to other
men, both in principle and in practice.
1. He possesses a superiority of principle. To examine this more
closely--
2. The superiority of the religious man’s conduct as originating in
this principle. A principle so powerful could not be in action without
producing very manifest results. Nor is it; for the man who truly believes the
redemption of the gospel “lives no longer to himself, but unto Him who died for
him.” We do not say that there is no virtue among men without the influence of
revealed religion. All the virtues of the natural character are of a much lower
origin. They are spurious and defective in the motive and principle from which
they spring. They are frequently constitutional. Taken, however, at their
highest point, such manifestations of virtuous principle are fleeting and
uncertain. Let us notice, by way of illustration, the two instances of moral
virtue which arise out of the present event of Jacob’s life--those of content
and liberality.
Let us now endeavour to draw some plain practical instructions
from the whole.
1. In the first place, it will be evident where we must look for the
spring of superior virtue; not in the spontaneous emotions of a man’s own
heart, not in the strong stimulus of occasional circumstances, not in the
influence of human opinion, not in the rewarded efforts of heroic resolution,
but in the right appreciation of a dying Saviour’s love. All other principles
will fail in their own time and way.
2. Observe, this contrast of the character of Esau and Jacob will
enable men of excellent moral habits to discriminate between the virtue of
habit and the virtue of principle.
3. This subject speaks with peculiar force to the covetous man. True
Christianity imparts, in a high degree, the graces of content and liberality. A
greedy pursuit of gain is utterly inconsistent with the self-denying spirit of
the gospel. This alone ought to be felt as a cutting rebuke for the love of
money. (E. Craig.)
The reconciliation
I. THE FRIENDLY
MEETING.
II. THE PRUDENT
SEPARATION. Perhaps Jacob was still a little afraid of the impetuosity of his
brother. But the deepest reason why Jacob politely declined Esau’s offer of
help and companionship was, we may well believe, a religious one. He saw that
the aims which Esau would have in view and the habits of Esau’s life would not
suit what he (Jacob) wished to keep in mind and do. Besides, he felt that God
intended him to keep apart from his brother, and to train his family in the
special knowledge of the covenant with Abraham, and of all the promises which
God had given. “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?”
III. THE MEMORIAL
OF GRATITUDE. Implying--
1. Thankfulness. God had enriched, guided, defended, comforted him.
2. Faith. Jacob would trust and worship God.
3. Hope. God, who had blessed him hitherto, would help him now and
in his further career. (W. S. Smith, B. D.)
Needlessness of anxiety
The present was quite unnecessary; the plan useless. God
“appeased” Esau, as He had already appeased Laban. Thus it is He ever delights
to rebuke our poor, coward, unbelieving hearts, and put to flight all our
fears, Instead of the dreaded sword of Esau, Jacob meets his embrace and kiss;
instead of strife and conflict, they mingle their tears. Such are God’s ways.
Who would not trust Him? Who would not honour Him with the heart’s fullest
confidence? Why is it that, notwithstanding all the sweet evidence of His
faithfulness to those who put their trust in Him, we are so ready, on every
fresh occasion, to doubt and hesitate? The answer is simple, we are not
sufficiently acquainted with God. “Acquaint now thyself with Him and be at
peace” (Job 22:21). This is true, whether in reference
to the unconverted sinner or to the child of God. The true knowledge of God,
real acquaintance with Him, is life and peace. (C. H. M.)
Lessons
1. God’s promise falls not short in making men yield to His saints.
2. Where God moveth, even wicked men will make speed and run to show
kindness to His servants.
3. The hardest hearts melt in affection when God toucheth them.
4. When men please God, enemies are made friends to them (Proverbs 16:7).
5. Where greatest danger is feared, God turns it to greatest love.
6. It is natural for brethren, good and bad, to melt in tears upon
providential turns and meetings (Genesis 33:4). (G. Hughes, B.
D.)
Lessons
1. Brotherly respect unto brethren will work kind inquisition after
their relations.
2. Love makes queries to know such relations as are to be beloved.
3. Truth, piety, and humility become all the answers to be made unto
queries of love by God’s servants.
4. Children are to be acknowledged the fruit of God’s mercy and
goodness to His (Psalms 127:3).
5. The anger of enraged men is turned into love and tenderness best
by self-denying submission. The reed overcomes the wind by yielding; the oaks
fall by resisting (Genesis 33:5).
6. It becometh family relations to keep order designed by their
head.
7. Orderly approach and submission is the way to gain acceptance
with great men.
8. Providence works by motions of creatures to turn hearts from fury
to love (Genesis 33:6-7). (G. Hughes, B. D.)
The reconciliation of Esau and Jacob
1. Brotherly love is a precious thing; let it be guarded well. Be
just, and true, and kind to one another; and let a spirit of forbearance and
forgiveness prevail.
2. We see here a striking example of prayer. Wrong as Jacob had been
before, he was right in this.
3. Jacob sets us an example also of wisdom and prudence. He prayed;
yet he used all the means in his power.
4. The very word reconciliation cannot but remind us of the great
reconciliation--that between the sinner and God. If God, in answer to prayer,
disposed Esau to be reconciled to his brother, surely He Himself will not
refuse pardon, reconciliation, and acceptance to one who has offended Him.
5. God will give His Holy Spirit to those that ask Him; and in this
office, among others, as the spirit of peace. He will help those of one family
to live together in peace, to bear and forbear, to love as brethren. Nay, more:
He can, by the same mighty influence, create a new heart in those who have as
yet been far from Him. (F. Bourdillon.)
Verse 9
I have enough
Contentment from two points of view
I.
HERE
IS AN UNGODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:9). Esau. Unconverted men are
sometimes contented with their lot in this life.
1. It is not always or often so: they are mostly a dissatisfied
company.
2. It is sometimes so: as in the case of Esau. This may arise from--
3. It has some good points about it.
4. Yet it has its evil side.
II. HERE IS A
GODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:11). Jacob.
1. It is a pity that this is not true of every Christian man.
2. It is delightful to have enough. Contentment surpasses riches.
3. It is pleasant to have somewhat to spare for the poor (Ephesians 4:28).
4. It is blessed to have all this through our God. Jacob said, “God
hath dealt graciously with me, and I have enough.”
5. It is best of all to have all things. In the margin we read that
Jacob said, “I have all things.” “All things are yours” (1 Corinthians 3:22).
Thus he has enough of strength and grace. Enough in Christ, in the
Word, and in the Spirit. Enough in God’s love, power and faithfulness, and an
immeasurable supply in God Himself, whose name is “God All-sufficient.” The
child of God should be ashamed of discontent, since even a common sinner may be
free from it. He should be heartily satisfied; for he has all things, and what
more can he desire? “ O rest in the Lord” (Psalms 37:7). (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Lessons
1. Natural affection will urge to inquire of the outward state of
brethren as well as of relations.
2. Modesty in nature will expostulate about brethren’s offers of
love rather then covetously take them.
3. Providential occurrences of good pretended may occasion natural
men to inquire about them.
4. Humble souls as under providence they do seek favour with men by
presents, so they profess it (Genesis 33:8).
5. It is possible for natural men to have a kind of sufficiency and content
in their possessions.
6. Nature may desire others to keep their own, as it is contented
with its portion.
7. Nature is apt to think earthly possessions enough without God (Genesis 33:9).
8. Ingenuity and grace is not only liberal, but urgent to have
fruits of love accepted.
9. Acceptance of loving presents is a token of acceptance of
persons.
10. It is just cause of importunity in pressing pacifying presents
when God’s face is seen in reconciled adversaries.
11. Unexpected love from displeased ones engageth to press kindness
on them (Genesis 33:10).
12. Presents of gracious souls from God to men are blessings.
13. Grace is importunate with man as well as with God to win Him.
14. God’s gracious respects to saints causeth them so to respect
their brethren.
15. God’s Jacobs, gracious souls, they have not only enough, but all
in the grace of God.
16. The all-sufficiency which God giveth His saints makes them so
pressing kindness to others.
17. Nature is overcome by the importunity of grace to accept an
outward blessing.
18. Brotherly conference is the way of winning upon men of bad
spirits. All this between Jacob and Esau is by loving parley. (G. Hughes, B.
D.)
Christian contentment
A poor Christian woman, who was breaking her fast upon a crust and
a cup of water, exclaimed, “What! all this and Christ too!” (C. H.
Spurgeon.)
A Puritan preacher asking a blessing on a herring and potatoes,
said, “Lord, we thank Thee that Thou hast ransacked sea and land to find food
for Thy children.” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Angelic content
The great cry with everybody is, “Get on! get on!” just as if the
world were travelling post. How astonished these people will be, if they arrive
in heaven, to find the angels, who are much wiser than they, laying no schemes
to be made archangels! (Maxims for Meditation.)
Content from a quiet mind
Is not the bee as well contented with feeding on the dew, or
sucking from a flower, as the ox that grazeth on the mountains? Contentment
lies within a man, in the heart; and the way to be comfortable is not by having
our barrels filled, but our minds quieted. The contented man (saith Seneca)is
the happy man . . . Discontent robs a man of the power to enjoy what he
possesses. A drop or two of vinegar will sour a whole glass of wine. (T.
Watson.)
Contentment of the unregenerate
As a typical instance of the contentment of some unregenerate
persons, note the following: “A captain of a whale-ship told one of the
wretched natives of Greenland that he sincerely pitied the miserable life to
which he was condemned. ‘Miserable!’ exclaimed the savage. ‘I have always had a
fish-bone through my nose, and plenty of train-oil to drink: what more could I
desire?’” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
I have enough
1. The first man who ever said so.
2. What even non-spiritual men may say. Should not Christians say
more?
3. Property should be a heart-store.
4. “Enough” can never be true of spiritual blessings.
5. The evils of avaricious grasping.
6. We must not be avaricious, even on the plea that it is for
others,
7. Christianity should be proved by contentment. Examples of
Christ and Paul. (J. Parker, D. D.)
Verse 11
I have enough
Contentment from two points of view
I.
HERE
IS AN UNGODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:9). Esau. Unconverted men are
sometimes contented with their lot in this life.
1. It is not always or often so: they are mostly a dissatisfied
company.
2. It is sometimes so: as in the case of Esau. This may arise from--
3. It has some good points about it.
4. Yet it has its evil side.
II. HERE IS A
GODLY MAN WHO HAS ENOUGH (Genesis 33:11). Jacob.
1. It is a pity that this is not true of every Christian man.
2. It is delightful to have enough. Contentment surpasses riches.
3. It is pleasant to have somewhat to spare for the poor (Ephesians 4:28).
4. It is blessed to have all this through our God. Jacob said, “God
hath dealt graciously with me, and I have enough.”
5. It is best of all to have all things. In the margin we read that
Jacob said, “I have all things.” “All things are yours” (1 Corinthians 3:22).
Thus he has enough of strength and grace. Enough in Christ, in the
Word, and in the Spirit. Enough in God’s love, power and faithfulness, and an
immeasurable supply in God Himself, whose name is “God All-sufficient.” The
child of God should be ashamed of discontent, since even a common sinner may be
free from it. He should be heartily satisfied; for he has all things, and what
more can he desire? “ O rest in the Lord” (Psalms 37:7). (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Lessons
1. Natural affection will urge to inquire of the outward state of
brethren as well as of relations.
2. Modesty in nature will expostulate about brethren’s offers of
love rather then covetously take them.
3. Providential occurrences of good pretended may occasion natural
men to inquire about them.
4. Humble souls as under providence they do seek favour with men by
presents, so they profess it (Genesis 33:8).
5. It is possible for natural men to have a kind of sufficiency and
content in their possessions.
6. Nature may desire others to keep their own, as it is contented
with its portion.
7. Nature is apt to think earthly possessions enough without God (Genesis 33:9).
8. Ingenuity and grace is not only liberal, but urgent to have
fruits of love accepted.
9. Acceptance of loving presents is a token of acceptance of
persons.
10. It is just cause of importunity in pressing pacifying presents
when God’s face is seen in reconciled adversaries.
11. Unexpected love from displeased ones engageth to press kindness
on them (Genesis 33:10).
12. Presents of gracious souls from God to men are blessings.
13. Grace is importunate with man as well as with God to win Him.
14. God’s gracious respects to saints causeth them so to respect
their brethren.
15. God’s Jacobs, gracious souls, they have not only enough, but all
in the grace of God.
16. The all-sufficiency which God giveth His saints makes them so
pressing kindness to others.
17. Nature is overcome by the importunity of grace to accept an
outward blessing.
18. Brotherly conference is the way of winning upon men of bad
spirits. All this between Jacob and Esau is by loving parley. (G. Hughes, B.
D.)
Christian contentment
A poor Christian woman, who was breaking her fast upon a crust and
a cup of water, exclaimed, “What! all this and Christ too!” (C. H.
Spurgeon.)
A Puritan preacher asking a blessing on a herring and potatoes,
said, “Lord, we thank Thee that Thou hast ransacked sea and land to find food
for Thy children.” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
Angelic content
The great cry with everybody is, “Get on! get on!” just as if the
world were travelling post. How astonished these people will be, if they arrive
in heaven, to find the angels, who are much wiser than they, laying no schemes
to be made archangels! (Maxims for Meditation.)
Content from a quiet mind
Is not the bee as well contented with feeding on the dew, or
sucking from a flower, as the ox that grazeth on the mountains? Contentment
lies within a man, in the heart; and the way to be comfortable is not by having
our barrels filled, but our minds quieted. The contented man (saith Seneca)is
the happy man . . . Discontent robs a man of the power to enjoy what he
possesses. A drop or two of vinegar will sour a whole glass of wine. (T.
Watson.)
Contentment of the unregenerate
As a typical instance of the contentment of some unregenerate
persons, note the following: “A captain of a whale-ship told one of the
wretched natives of Greenland that he sincerely pitied the miserable life to
which he was condemned. ‘Miserable!’ exclaimed the savage. ‘I have always had a
fish-bone through my nose, and plenty of train-oil to drink: what more could I
desire?’” (C. H. Spurgeon.)
I have enough
1. The first man who ever said so.
2. What even non-spiritual men may say. Should not Christians say
more?
3. Property should be a heart-store.
4. “Enough” can never be true of spiritual blessings.
5. The evils of avaricious grasping.
6. We must not be avaricious, even on the plea that it is for
others,
7. Christianity should be proved by contentment. Examples of
Christ and Paul. (J. Parker, D. D.)
Verse 13
The children are tender
Gently! gently!
I.
LET
US VIEW JACOB AS AN EXAMPLE TO US. Tender consideration for the young and
feeble.
1. How we may overdrive.
2. Why we should not overdrive the lambs.
(10) We remember how tender Jesus is: and this brings us to our second point.
II. LET US VIEW
JACOB AS A PICTURE OF OUR LORD JESUS. See His portrait Isaiah 40:11.
1. The weak have a special place in His love.
2. He will not have it that any of them should die.
3. Therefore He never overdrives one of them.
4. But He suits His pace to their feebleness, “I will lead on
softly” Genesis 33:15).
“I have many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now.”
Has He not thus been very tender to us? “ Thy gentleness hath made me great” Psalms 18:35). Let us not fret and worry
as though He were an exactor. We are not driven by Jehu, but led by Jesus. Let
us rest in His love. At the same time let us not be slower than need be.
Towards others let us be tenderness itself, for we are to love our neighbour as
ourselves. (C. H.Spurgeon.)
Jacob’s precaution
The angels of peace and of love seem to hover over the charm of
the preceding scene; and the heart lingers with delight in contemplating the
noble emulation of generosity and confidence. But is not this harmony too soon
disturbed? Does not again a spirit of suspicion and reserve overshadow the mind
of Jacob? Is he incapable of rising to the natural purity of his disinterested
brother? Or does his keen intellect teach him how imprudent it would be
unguardedly to rely upon the fallacious calmness of a passionate mind? Admitted
even, that Jacob’s apprehensions were, in this respect, exaggerated, his
precaution was the result of a deep insight into Esau’s character; the most
insignificant circumstance might recall to his memory the events of the past;
his rage might be re-kindled; and, though perhaps later bewailing his rashness,
he might, by his superiority, be misled to deeds of cruel revenge. When,
therefore, Esau wished to accompany Jacob, for protection, through the regions
with which his excursions had made him familiar, the latter cautiously declined
the offer; he refused even the garrison or guard which Esau proposed to leave
him; but he promised, of his own accord, to visit him in his home in Seir; for
he knew, that the sacred rights of hospitality would there protect him, even
against an outbreak of passion. But though the objections of Jacob may have
been as many evasions, they were not untruths; he could certainly not, without
great danger, follow with his encumbered caravan, the march of Esau; and the
latter seemed to acknowledge the justness of the remark; but he opposed the
second offer with the simple question: “Wherefore do I thus find grace in the
sight of my lord?” He invented no fictitious pretext; he thus almost exposed
himself to the danger of arousing his brother’s suspicion; but he had banished
deceit from his heart; and he preferred risk to falsehood. (M. M. Kalisch,
Ph. D.)
Sympathy for the feeble
The Lord chooses under-shepherds for His flock among men subject
to weakness and infirmity, that they may have a fellow-feeling for the feeble.
Selah Merrill, in his “East of the Jordan,” describes the movement of an Arab
tribe, and says,” The flocks of sheep and goats were mostly driven by small
children. Sometimes there were flocks of lambs and kids driven by children not
much older relatively than the lambs and kids themselves. Some of the men had
in their arms two, three, four, or a whole armful of kids and lambs that were
too young to walk; and among some cooking utensils there was a large saucepan,
and in it was a pair of small kids that were too young for the journey.” (C.
H.Spurgeon.)
Gentle dealing for the feeble
When a candle is newly lighted and needs to be moved, it must be
carried at a slow pace or it will be extinguished. A fire which is almost expiring
may be revived by a gentle breath, but it will be blown out if the bellows are
plied at their full force. You can drown a little plant by watering it too
much, and destroy a lovely flower by exposing it to too much sun. (C. H.
Spurgeon.)
Gentleness and strength go together
Nothing is so strong as gentleness; nothing so gentle as real
strength. (Francis de Sales.)
Tenderness of manner
Even in our manner there should be tenderness. A truly kind act
may be so performed as to cause as much grief as joy. We have heard of one who
would throw a penny at a beggar and thus hurt him while relieving him. A heart
full of love has a mode of its own by which its gifts are enhanced in value.
There is enough misery in the world without our carelessly adding to it. Some persons
are morbidly sensitive, and this is wrong on their part; but when we are aware
of their failing we must be the more careful lest we cause them needless pain.
A gouty man will cry out if we walk with heavy footstep across the room. Do we
censure him for this? No, we pity him, and tread softly. Let us do the same for
the sensitive. (C. H.Spurgeon.)
The weakest first
At the Stockwell Orphanage the usual rule of walking is--little
boys first. In this way the younger children cannot be overdriven or left
behind, and moreover all the boys can see before them, whereas by the usual
practice of putting the tall fellows first the view in front is shut out from
all but the few who lead the way. Let the Church have great care for the weaker
brethren, and shape her action with a constant reference to them. A strong
Christian might do a thousand things lawfully if he only thought of himself,
but he will not do one of them because he wishes to act expediently, and would
not grieve his brother, or cause him to stumble.
Verse 17
Jacob journeyed to Succoth
Lessons
1.
Providence
in love carrieth on his own after removing of blocks from their way.
2. The movings and journeyings of his own, providence guides, as of
the wicked, but with distinction.
3. Esau under providence may be carried to Seir, strong mountains,
but Jacob to Succoth, a poor cottage and a booth..
4. Under providence it concerns good householders to build shelters,
for themselves, families, and cattle.
5. Such common works of saints are recorded as pleasing unto God.
6. Jacob’s seed are careful to keep booth-providences in
remembrance, Name of place showeth this. (G. Hughes, B. D.)
Verse 18
And Jacob came to Shalem, a city of Shechem,. . . and pitched his
tent before the city
Jacob’s mistake
God had not said, Go to Shechem; but, “I am the God of Bethel.
” Bethel, rather than Shechem, was his appointed goal. But alas! we are all too
ready to fall short of God’s schemes for our elevation and blessedness. And so
Jacob came to Shalem, a city of Shechem. But he did worse; he pitched his tent
before the city--as Lot did, when he pitched his tent before Sodom. What took
him there? Was it that Rachel persuaded him that a little society would be a
pleasant relief to the monotony and seclusion of the camp life? Was it that his
children urged him to it against his better mind? Was it some idea of obtaining
eligible alliances for his children among the children of the land? Whatever
may have been his reason, there stands the sad and solemn fact that Jacob
pitched his tent before the city. Are not many Christians doing so still? They
live on the edge of the world, just on the borderland; far enough away to
justify a religious profession, yet near enough to run into it for sweets. They
send their children to fashionable schools, that they may acquire the false
veneer of the world, and past muster in its drawing rooms. They remove into the
fashionable quarters of a town; and adopt a certain style; and throw themselves
into the swim of all manner of worldly engagements--that they may get in with
“society.” They choose their church, their pastimes, their friendships, on the
sole principle of doing as others do; and of forming good alliances for their
children. What is all this but pitching their tents towards Shechem? “But what
are we to do?” say they; “our children must have society; they cannot be recluses,
or be for ever shut up in our homes.” But why need we cater for them by rushing
into the world? Are there not plenty of innocent pastimes, on which worldliness
has never breathed its withering breath? Are there not enough elements in the
bright social intercourse of the family circle; in the play of imagination and
wholesome merriment; in games of skill; in the charms of books; in the recital
of travel and adventure; in the witchery of wholesome songs and music; and even
in the revelations of modern popular science--to beguile the hours of long
winter evenings, without calling in the aid of worldly society, whose brightest
hours leave a sense of vacuity and thirst, to say nothing of a positive sting?
The most earnest religion does not debar us from manly sports: the swift
movement of the skater over the frozen lake; the evening row; the exhilarating
climb: or from the culture of the faculties of art; and music; and imagination;
of science and poesy. Surely, in all these there is enough to brighten Christian
homes, without grieving the Holy Spirit, or lowering their tone. But if parents
and guardians will insist on something more exciting and stimulating than
these, they must reckon on being called upon to pay the price. They may have
the dice-box, the theatre, the dance, if they will; but they must learn, by sad
experience, the bitter cost. He needs a long spoon who sups with the devil. The
fact is, it is much easier to give these things than to arouse oneself to
provide something better. The something better needs time and thought; and
staying at home from religious meetings, to give it effect: but the ultimate
benefit will more than repay the self-denial. (F. B. Meyer, B. A.)
Shechem
I. RELIGIOUS
REVIVAL.
II. FAMILY TRIALS.
(T. S. Dickson.)
Verse 19-20
And he bought a parcel of a field
Jacob’s faith and piety
I.
HIS
FAITH. He bought a parcel of ground as a pledge of his faith in the future
possession of that country by his posterity (Genesis 33:19). This purchase of a
portion of land, concerning which God had promised Abraham that it should be
his, showed Jacob’s deep conviction that the promise was renewed to him and to
his seed.
II. HIS PIETY.
This was an evidence of his faith. He gave himself up entirely to God, and this
inward feeling was expressed outwardly by acts of obedience and devotion. His
piety is seen--
1. In an act of worship. “He erected there an altar.” This was in
keeping with his vow (Genesis 28:21).
2. In the use of blessings already given. He called the altar
“El-Elohe-Israel” (Genesis 33:20). He now uses his own new
name, Israel, for the first time, in association with the name of God. He uses
that name which signifies the Mighty One, who was now his covenant God. He
lives up to his privilege, uses all that God had given. He had vowed that he
would take the Lord to be his God.
3. In the peace he enjoyed. He arrived in peace at his journey’s end
(Genesis 33:18). (T. H. Leale.)
Lessons
1. Jacob and his seed desire to usurp nothing but what they buy from
the world.
2. God’s pilgrims mind no great purchase below, but only a place for
a tent: a little place.
3. It is lawful for Jacob to deal with Canaanites in just exchanges
(Genesis 33:19).
4. Saints would not have a house but that God should dwell in 2:5.
Succeeding saints repair religion and the means of the exercise of it, set up by
progenitors.
6. Altarworship, or worship by Christ, is that which saints have
ever practised.
7. True religion is terminated in the Almighty God.
8. Religious worship is the true memorial of God’s making His Church
truly Israel (Genesis 2:20). (G. Hughes, B. D.)
He erected there an altar
The family altar
By calling this altar “El-Elohe-Israel,” or God the God of Israel,
it was virtually saying, “I erect this altar for the worship of my family, to
the God with whom I have prevailed in supplication, and who has proved Himself
the hearer of my prayer.” Such an altar should there be in every household;
and, without further special reference to our text, I proceed to the subject I
have chosen for this occasion,, namely, that of family worship.
1. We may remark, first, that it is clearly the duty of every family
to maintain such worship.
2. We may pass on, therefore, in the second place, to the advantages
of family worship. Among its lesser benefits, we may remark in passing that,
rightly conducted, it makes a profitable impression upon those out of the
family, who may chance to witness it. Family worship is also of unspeakable
advantage in maintaining all the other institutions of our holy religion. We
can hardly enumerate the advantages of family worship to the household itself.
That it draws down the blessing of God upon the domestic circle needs no proof,
for we have for our encouragement, not only the general promises made to prayer,
but the special assurance that “where two or three are gathered together in
Christ’s name He will be with them”; and we have farther, the evidence of
actual experience. If we value the salvation of our loved ones we shall not
neglect this means of securing it. The restraining influence of domestic
worship upon all the annoyances and disturbers of domestic peace is most
powerful and valuable. Who can kneel down and pray daily before his family
against a sin which he habitually commits? How can the inmates of a dwelling
cherish unkind feelings towards each other while united in common prayer?
3. We may next notice the manner in which family devotions may best
be performed.
4. Our last point will be to notice the objections and difficulties
which are commonly opposed to the duty. One may reply, that all these arguments
and statements may be very good and true, but that he makes no profession of
religion, and it would be improper, therefore, for him to set up family
worship. Why so? Is it wrong for him to pray in secret, or in the house of God,
or to give his children religious instruction? And why any more so to pray in
the family? (W. H. Lewis, D. D.)
Jacob’s thankfulness after deliverance
See the practice of faithful men, ever when God hath been merciful
to them, and delivered them out of danger. Now Jacob buildeth an altar in the
true thankfulness of his soul unto God for this great mercy and deliverance of
him from his brother Esau. And he calleth it the mighty God of Israel: giving
to the sign the name of the thing which it signified, which is usual in the
Scripture. Thus would God it might kindle some heat in our hearts and
consciences, to consider ourselves, the dangers we have been in our days, the
dangers of the land wherein we inhabit. The dangers of wife, children, and
friends, and now our safety and deliverance from all our fears. For this hath
the Lord done for us, and whatsoever it is in our eyes, surely it is wonderful
even through the world. But where now are our altars? That is, where are our thanks
and most grateful songs for our deliverance? We have found mercy as Jacob did;
yea, for more, for greater Esaus have come against us, than did against him,
not with four hundred men, but many thousands, to captivate us for ever as
their slaves when they had slain their fill. And yet we live, and by God only
who hath strangely revenged us upon them that would thus have eaten us up. That
is, as I say again, we give not thanks for the custom of our time, as he did
after the manner of his. At the first peradventure we did, but it was soon at
an end. Now are we fallen into a deep sleep again, and both God and His mercy
is forgotten. Our danger also, as if it had never been. But in the Lord I
beseech you, let us awake again, look upon Jacob here what he cloth, and every
man and woman follow his example. Build God an altar, not in earth with lime and
stone, but in your heart of most kind and thankful remembrance for all His
mercies to the land, to our dread sovereign, to ourselves, our souls and
bodies, to our wives and children, to our neighbours and friends, and infinite
ways that we cannot name. Bless His majesty for them, and let not the
remembrance die, till you die yourself. A thankful heart is all that the Lord
seeketh, and it is all that indeed we can do to Him. (Bp. Babington.)
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